Problems I don’t work with

There are some problems I don’t work with.

Many newly qualified hypnotherapists will agree to see just about anyone, whatever their problem, because they’re desperate for business.

This is because there are now so many inexperienced hypnotherapists in the UK, as you can see from my own research HERE.

They will see a client even if they’ve never treated that problem before and never even read about it.

I’ve often seen hypnotherapists on internet forums asking for “scripts” to use with clients whom the therapist has no idea how to deal with.

Nevertheless they’ve made an appointment with that client and perhaps even taken payment in advance!

Sometimes the therapist is even seeing the client later on that day, when they still don’t know how they would treat them!

This is very bad practice.

The most competent and experienced hypnotherapists will generally specialise in certain areas of work in which they build up extensive experience, knowledge, and expertise.

They will do special training in these areas, and study the available research.

Obviously they will focus more on those problems which interest them- often because they’ve overcome that problem for themselves.

A good therapist is not generally a jack of all trades.

So on this page I’ll discuss a few problems which I DON’T work with.

Losing Weight

I do not work with clients who need to change their eating habits in order to lose weight, but have no particular emotional issues around food.

If this is your problem, you’d be better off seeing a therapist who specialises in this area, and has made a detailed study of nutrition and biology, including the individual differences between people.

In recent years scientists have discovered a great deal about why some people find it so difficult to lose weight.

For instance, where you have an intense craving for chocolate, it could be the bacteria in your gut which are creating this craving, in which case the balance between different types of bacteria inside you needs to be adjusted.

It’s not always a good idea to follow a diet from a book, magazine, or website.

Whoever devised that diet doesn’t know your individual needs.

In any case many diets are too unnatural and boring for anyone to keep to.

So if this is your problem then I recommend  you to consult a holistic practitioner like Hamish Tailyour or Rory McGill, both of whom have in-depth knowledge of nutrition and digestion.

Food and Emotions

If however you have real emotional issues around food which prevent you from sticking to a healthy eating plan, then you may benefit from hypnotherapy with me.

This would be focused on the underlying issues, which could be fear, anger, sadness, or some other thing.

Click HERE for more about this topic.

Stopping Smoking

It might surprise some people that this is one of the problems I don’t work with.

Some people assume that stopping people smoking is all we hypnotists do!

And to be fair, when I first started practice as a full-time hypnotherapist in 1994, about half my clients came for help with stopping smoking.

Many of them recommended others to come and see me.

In recent years, however, smoking has become very much less common in this country.

It’s now down to about 15% of adults, and most of the small minority who are still smoking have no intention of stopping, despite the damage to their health.

Many of them have a stubborn determination to continue smoking.

They will for instance socialise in the most uncomfortable and squalid places.

They sit outside in the cold and dark while non-smokers are enjoying a warm well-lit pub with comfortable seating just a few metres away!

Most people who do stop smoking do it on their own without any special help.

But it’s important to prepare yourself so as to maximise your chances of success. I’ve made a video about this which you can see here.

Effectiveness of Stop Smoking Hypnosis

I do not offer one-to-one sessions of hypnosis for stopping smoking.

All too often, clients who seek hypnosis for stopping smoking have quite unrealistic expectations of what a single session of hypnosis can do for them.

Scientific studies on hypnosis for stopping smoking generally show a maximum success rate of about one in three.

This is when clients are followed up a year later and actually tested to see if they have really not been smoking.

And this kind of success rate is generally from therapists who offer a course of sessions rather than just one session.

So hypnosis for stopping smoking is nothing like so successful as many hypnotherapists claim.

But it is still the most effective therapy for this problem.

So if you do want stop smoking hypnosis I suggest you research carefully.

Find a specialist who actually follows up their clients and can show a good LONG TERM success rate.

Even if you have to travel a long distance it is surely worth the time and money. After all, your health is priceless!

HYPNO-BIRTHING.

Hypnosis is very effective for preparing women who will soon be giving birth.

This is a very specialised area.

In my opinion the best people to work in this area would be women who are trained midwives, who have done specialist hypno-birthing training.

Ideally they would have given birth themselves.

You can find hypno-birthing practitioners by just searching online for “hypnobirthing practitioner near me.”

JEALOUSY.

This is another of the problems I don’t work with.

Therapy cannot usually help in extreme jealousy, especially where it’s the other partner who is seeking help for the jealous person.

Relationships involving extreme jealousy often end in serious violence.

So if your partner is abnormally jealous you should see a solicitor rather than a therapist.

And you must go directly to the police if there’s been actual violence.

Remember that in this country a woman is far more likely to be killed by her partner than by anybody else.